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Java with Juli

Dr. Juli Slattery, author and co-founder of Authentic Intimacy™

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Java with Juli
Java with Juli

Java with Juli

Dr. Juli Slattery, author and co-founder of Authentic Intimacy™

11
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32
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Juli Slattery sits down with guests over coffee and you get to join them. We have honest conversations about sex, marriage, pornography, intimacy, singleness, truth and God's design for sexuality.

Latest Episodes

#286: How to Make Time to Make Love

Making time to make love is always going to take effort. There will always be an excuse to put it off for another season. Grab your latte and join us at the coffee shop for laughter, encouragement and practical things you can do to make intimacy a priority in your marriage. Guests: Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher Mentioned: Give the Gift of Membership! Passion Pursuit Bible Study

29 MIN5 d ago
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#286: How to Make Time to Make Love

#285: Loving Without Compromise

Yes, you can love a gay or lesbian friend without trying to change them. Sadly, many in the LGBT+ community feel shamed by Christians simply for wrestling with their sexuality. Join Juli and Dr. Preston Sprinkle for a conversation that will take you one step closer to seeing (and loving) your same-sex attracted friend or transgender neighbor as Christ does. Guest: Dr. Preston Sprinkle Mentioned: Theology in the Raw (Preston’s podcast) Guiding Families of LGBT+ Loved Ones (Book) People to Be Loved (Preston’s book)

47 MIN1 w ago
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#285: Loving Without Compromise

#55: When Marriage Won't Get Better

What do you do when your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, but your spouse won't work on it, no matter how many times you ask, beg or plead? Join Juli and her guests as they talk about how you can live joyously and free from shame even when your marriage is not “successful” according to our traditional Christian ideas. Guests: Drs. Chuck & Michael Misja Mentioned: Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage Beyond a Happy Marriage Where Do You Run When Marriage Gets Lonely?

38 MIN2 w ago
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#55: When Marriage Won't Get Better

#284: Be a Truth Teller

If you're tired of smiling on the outside while you are broken and battered on the inside, Ashley Abercrombie has a message for you -it's okay to tell the truth about yourself and what you've been through. Join Juli as she talks with Ashley about why our stories are valuable and how they are one of the greatest gifts we have to give others. ​​ Guest: Ashley Abercrombie Mentioned: Rise of the Truth-Teller (book) Why Tho? (podcast) Why Your Story Matters (Juli's blog)

35 MIN2 w ago
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#284: Be a Truth Teller

#283: I Was the Abuser

Are you, or someone you love, a recovering sex offender? If so, this conversation is for you. In this episode, Juli sits down with John Fort, who has spent over a decade studying sexual addiction and working with men in recovery. He's also a former addict and sex offender. Listen in to hear how deep and radical the love of Jesus is and be challenged to offer that same love to others. Guest: John Fort Mentioned: Be Broken Ministries Honest Talk Rethinking Sexuality

43 MIN2 w ago
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#283: I Was the Abuser

#282: How Shame Impacts Us

Shame is becoming popular… in a good way. More than ever, both Christian and secular voices are calling out the messages that tell us that we’re not enough. In this episode, Juli and her guest talk about what shame is and how it impacts you and your relationships. Do you fight, flight or freeze when you feel shame? Do you know the key to diffusing shame in others? Plus, we'll answer YOUR email questions. Guest: Dr. Debi Grebenik Mentioned: Rethinking Sexuality (book)

41 MIN2 w ago
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#282: How Shame Impacts Us

#281: Growing Closer Through Conflict

There’s no such thing as instant intimacy. Love at first sight? Perhaps. But intimacy is something else entirely. It takes years to fully know and accept the person you’re married to. In this episode, Juli and her guest dive into why healthy conflict is one of the best ways to build intimacy with your spouse. Guest: Dr. Ron Welch Mentioned: 10 Choices Successful Couples Make (book)

48 MIN2 w ago
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#281: Growing Closer Through Conflict

#280: When Submission Becomes Controlling

Sarah got married believing that absolute submission to her husband would glorify God; making Him, her and her man happy. Only, she wasn't happy. Neither was her husband, really. In this episode, Juli and her guests talk about what can happen when we misunderstand what the Bible says about our roles as men and women in marriage. Guests: Sarah O'Connor & Dr. Ron Welch Mentioned: #48: My Controlling Spouse #163: Women & the Tough Bible Verses Finding the Hero in Your Husband

46 MIN2 w ago
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#280: When Submission Becomes Controlling

#279: Why You Feel Shame When Your Spouse Cheats

A betrayed spouse often feels as much (or more) shame as their partner. In this episode Juli welcomes Dr. Sheri Keffer to share her story about the impact of shame on our minds and bodies when we discover we've been betrayed by the person who is supposed to love us most. Guest: Dr. Sheri Keffer Mentioned: Sheri's book, Intimate Deception Learn more about Sheri's workshops Find a Specialist Near You Surprised by the Healer

42 MIN2 w ago
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#279: Why You Feel Shame When Your Spouse Cheats

#278: Aging with Enthusiam & Grace

Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. How can we be grateful, joyful, and love others well whatever season we're in? Today Juli & friends talk about how our perspectives change with age, the benefits of being "the older woman" and how to grieve the losses that come with aging. There's lots of laughter at the coffee shop today as Juli turns 50! Guests: Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher Mentioned: Donat

-1 sSEP 9
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#278: Aging with Enthusiam & Grace

Latest Episodes

#286: How to Make Time to Make Love

Making time to make love is always going to take effort. There will always be an excuse to put it off for another season. Grab your latte and join us at the coffee shop for laughter, encouragement and practical things you can do to make intimacy a priority in your marriage. Guests: Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher Mentioned: Give the Gift of Membership! Passion Pursuit Bible Study

29 MIN5 d ago
Comments
#286: How to Make Time to Make Love

#285: Loving Without Compromise

Yes, you can love a gay or lesbian friend without trying to change them. Sadly, many in the LGBT+ community feel shamed by Christians simply for wrestling with their sexuality. Join Juli and Dr. Preston Sprinkle for a conversation that will take you one step closer to seeing (and loving) your same-sex attracted friend or transgender neighbor as Christ does. Guest: Dr. Preston Sprinkle Mentioned: Theology in the Raw (Preston’s podcast) Guiding Families of LGBT+ Loved Ones (Book) People to Be Loved (Preston’s book)

47 MIN1 w ago
Comments
#285: Loving Without Compromise

#55: When Marriage Won't Get Better

What do you do when your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, but your spouse won't work on it, no matter how many times you ask, beg or plead? Join Juli and her guests as they talk about how you can live joyously and free from shame even when your marriage is not “successful” according to our traditional Christian ideas. Guests: Drs. Chuck & Michael Misja Mentioned: Thriving Despite a Difficult Marriage Beyond a Happy Marriage Where Do You Run When Marriage Gets Lonely?

38 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#55: When Marriage Won't Get Better

#284: Be a Truth Teller

If you're tired of smiling on the outside while you are broken and battered on the inside, Ashley Abercrombie has a message for you -it's okay to tell the truth about yourself and what you've been through. Join Juli as she talks with Ashley about why our stories are valuable and how they are one of the greatest gifts we have to give others. ​​ Guest: Ashley Abercrombie Mentioned: Rise of the Truth-Teller (book) Why Tho? (podcast) Why Your Story Matters (Juli's blog)

35 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#284: Be a Truth Teller

#283: I Was the Abuser

Are you, or someone you love, a recovering sex offender? If so, this conversation is for you. In this episode, Juli sits down with John Fort, who has spent over a decade studying sexual addiction and working with men in recovery. He's also a former addict and sex offender. Listen in to hear how deep and radical the love of Jesus is and be challenged to offer that same love to others. Guest: John Fort Mentioned: Be Broken Ministries Honest Talk Rethinking Sexuality

43 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#283: I Was the Abuser

#282: How Shame Impacts Us

Shame is becoming popular… in a good way. More than ever, both Christian and secular voices are calling out the messages that tell us that we’re not enough. In this episode, Juli and her guest talk about what shame is and how it impacts you and your relationships. Do you fight, flight or freeze when you feel shame? Do you know the key to diffusing shame in others? Plus, we'll answer YOUR email questions. Guest: Dr. Debi Grebenik Mentioned: Rethinking Sexuality (book)

41 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#282: How Shame Impacts Us

#281: Growing Closer Through Conflict

There’s no such thing as instant intimacy. Love at first sight? Perhaps. But intimacy is something else entirely. It takes years to fully know and accept the person you’re married to. In this episode, Juli and her guest dive into why healthy conflict is one of the best ways to build intimacy with your spouse. Guest: Dr. Ron Welch Mentioned: 10 Choices Successful Couples Make (book)

48 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#281: Growing Closer Through Conflict

#280: When Submission Becomes Controlling

Sarah got married believing that absolute submission to her husband would glorify God; making Him, her and her man happy. Only, she wasn't happy. Neither was her husband, really. In this episode, Juli and her guests talk about what can happen when we misunderstand what the Bible says about our roles as men and women in marriage. Guests: Sarah O'Connor & Dr. Ron Welch Mentioned: #48: My Controlling Spouse #163: Women & the Tough Bible Verses Finding the Hero in Your Husband

46 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#280: When Submission Becomes Controlling

#279: Why You Feel Shame When Your Spouse Cheats

A betrayed spouse often feels as much (or more) shame as their partner. In this episode Juli welcomes Dr. Sheri Keffer to share her story about the impact of shame on our minds and bodies when we discover we've been betrayed by the person who is supposed to love us most. Guest: Dr. Sheri Keffer Mentioned: Sheri's book, Intimate Deception Learn more about Sheri's workshops Find a Specialist Near You Surprised by the Healer

42 MIN2 w ago
Comments
#279: Why You Feel Shame When Your Spouse Cheats

#278: Aging with Enthusiam & Grace

Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us. How can we be grateful, joyful, and love others well whatever season we're in? Today Juli & friends talk about how our perspectives change with age, the benefits of being "the older woman" and how to grieve the losses that come with aging. There's lots of laughter at the coffee shop today as Juli turns 50! Guests: Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher Mentioned: Donat

-1 sSEP 9
Comments
#278: Aging with Enthusiam & Grace
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