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Relationship Alive!

Neil Sattin

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Relationship Alive!
Relationship Alive!

Relationship Alive!

Neil Sattin

38
Followers
179
Plays
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Neil Sattin interviews John Gottman, Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Peter Levine, Stan Tatkin, Dick Schwartz, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Diana Richardson, Terry Real, Wendy Maltz - and many others - in his quest to dig deep into all the factors that keep a Relationship Alive and Thriving! Each week Neil brings you an in-depth interview with a relationship expert. Neil is an author and relationship coach who is enthusiastic and passionate about relationships and the nuts and bolts of what makes them last. You can find out more about Neil Sattin and the Relationship Alive podcast at http://www.neilsattin.com

Latest Episodes

How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld

EConflict is often viewed as a bad thing. It’s uncomfortable. It makes us feel bad, and often makes others feel bad too. What if you’re missing out on an opportunity? This is the moment where something new can form within that relationship. And within you. This week we're joined by Viola Neufeld. She works to help those stuck in conflict to get to a place of profound inner transformation. Viola is also the author of “Grateful For The Fight: Using inner conflict to transform yourself and your relationsh

57 MIN5 days ago
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How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld

[Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin

EIt’s easy to talk about “Self Care” - to pay lip service to it - but what does it really mean to take care of yourself? In today’s episode, we’re going to get back to basics to ensure that you’re actually nourishing the most important person in your world - you! Because if you’re not, then how are you going to show up for the people around you? By the end, you'll have a sense of exactly what's essential for keeping you at your best.

34 MINSEP 15
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[Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin

Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

EThere are ways to communicate that keep you stuck, or that make things worse - and there are ways to communicate that foster the healthy development of your relationship. So how do you avoid the pitfalls, and reconnect with each other in spite of your differences? Or even in appreciation of your differences? In today’s episode, we have a return visit from Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson, co-founders of The Couples Institute, with practical tips to improve the health of your relationship through communicatio

46 MINSEP 5
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Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin

EIn what ways are you being controlled by your partner? In what ways are you controlling them? How does it help you? And how does it hurt you? In today’s episode, we’re going to dive deep on this issue of control, and see if we just can’t dismantle the ways that it’s holding you back in your relationship. By the end, you'll see exactly what structures of control you've put in place in your relationship, understand why they're there, and have a path towards greater freedom to be yourself in your relat

42 MINAUG 29
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How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin

Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown

EIs it possible to be a spiritual being in a human body? Transcendent, yet grounded? Why do so many “spiritual leaders” tell us to leave our feelings behind? Can you be truly connected to another person - including on the spiritual level? To get to the heart, body, and soul of these questions, we’re talking to Jeff Brown, author of “Grounded Spirituality”. Jeff’s will connect you to your precious, unique divinity - in a way that’s practical, connected, and...real. Or as he might say...enrealed

65 MINAUG 21
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Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown

Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin

ECan people really change? And how do you know if someone *will* change? It's a good question, especially if you're dealing with some significant challenges in your relationship. You might be wondering about your partner - or you might be wondering about your own ability to do things differently. We'll tackle how change works - what are the requirements for creating changes that stick? What's a realistic pace for change? And how can you tell if someone else is truly going to do what it takes?

32 MINAUG 10
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Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin

Pleasure Activism: Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown

EWhen looking to change things in your world, how do you let pleasure be the force that guides you? How do you fulfill desire while you fight for change? How do you take care of yourself while you transform? Today we’re speaking with author, activist, and healer adrienne maree brown. Her most recent book, the New York Times bestseller “Pleasure Activism”, leans into black feminist traditions to challenge you to rethink how to facilitate change in your own life without sacrificing health or pleasure.

62 MINJUL 25
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Pleasure Activism: Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown

What To Do When Things Get Challenging

EWhen things get challenging in your relationship, what's the best way to ensure that you and your partner can make it through? How do you avoid the losing strategies that come naturally in a moment of crisis - and, instead, choose ways of dealing that are more likely to lead to a positive outcome? Whether it's something small, or something apocalyptic, we'll talk about how to weather the storm successfully, with strategies that will help you navigate a painful moment without doing something destructive.

39 MINJUL 19
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What To Do When Things Get Challenging

Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds with Peter Levine

EHow would you know if there were experiences from the earliest moments of your life affecting you here and now? And if you are indeed being impacted by the distant past - what can you do to heal those early traumas so that you’re more free and connected in your current life? Our guest today is Peter Levine, creator of Somatic Experiencing, and author of many bestselling books on healing trauma. Today you’ll learn how to see the signs of these deep emotions, and what to do to regulate them with your part

59 MINJUL 10
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Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds with Peter Levine

Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy

EDo you want one surefire way to know if the way you're interacting with your partner is something that they're into? Get their consent! Is there a place for getting consent even in a long-term relationship where you're pretty sure you know what your partner wants (and doesn't want)? Absolutely! Getting consent is a pathway to deeper intimacy, passion, and presence - for ALL relationships. Today you'll learn how to re-introduce the language of consent in a way that's empowering for both you and your partner.

25 MINJUL 4
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Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy

Latest Episodes

How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld

EConflict is often viewed as a bad thing. It’s uncomfortable. It makes us feel bad, and often makes others feel bad too. What if you’re missing out on an opportunity? This is the moment where something new can form within that relationship. And within you. This week we're joined by Viola Neufeld. She works to help those stuck in conflict to get to a place of profound inner transformation. Viola is also the author of “Grateful For The Fight: Using inner conflict to transform yourself and your relationsh

57 MIN5 days ago
Comments
How to Benefit from Conflict - with Viola Neufeld

[Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin

EIt’s easy to talk about “Self Care” - to pay lip service to it - but what does it really mean to take care of yourself? In today’s episode, we’re going to get back to basics to ensure that you’re actually nourishing the most important person in your world - you! Because if you’re not, then how are you going to show up for the people around you? By the end, you'll have a sense of exactly what's essential for keeping you at your best.

34 MINSEP 15
Comments
[Updated] Important Self-Care Basics with Neil Sattin

Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

EThere are ways to communicate that keep you stuck, or that make things worse - and there are ways to communicate that foster the healthy development of your relationship. So how do you avoid the pitfalls, and reconnect with each other in spite of your differences? Or even in appreciation of your differences? In today’s episode, we have a return visit from Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson, co-founders of The Couples Institute, with practical tips to improve the health of your relationship through communicatio

46 MINSEP 5
Comments
Communication that Grows Your Relationship - with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson

How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin

EIn what ways are you being controlled by your partner? In what ways are you controlling them? How does it help you? And how does it hurt you? In today’s episode, we’re going to dive deep on this issue of control, and see if we just can’t dismantle the ways that it’s holding you back in your relationship. By the end, you'll see exactly what structures of control you've put in place in your relationship, understand why they're there, and have a path towards greater freedom to be yourself in your relat

42 MINAUG 29
Comments
How to Stop Controlling Each Other (and Why) - with Neil Sattin

Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown

EIs it possible to be a spiritual being in a human body? Transcendent, yet grounded? Why do so many “spiritual leaders” tell us to leave our feelings behind? Can you be truly connected to another person - including on the spiritual level? To get to the heart, body, and soul of these questions, we’re talking to Jeff Brown, author of “Grounded Spirituality”. Jeff’s will connect you to your precious, unique divinity - in a way that’s practical, connected, and...real. Or as he might say...enrealed

65 MINAUG 21
Comments
Grounded Spirituality for Deeper Presence and Connection - with Jeff Brown

Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin

ECan people really change? And how do you know if someone *will* change? It's a good question, especially if you're dealing with some significant challenges in your relationship. You might be wondering about your partner - or you might be wondering about your own ability to do things differently. We'll tackle how change works - what are the requirements for creating changes that stick? What's a realistic pace for change? And how can you tell if someone else is truly going to do what it takes?

32 MINAUG 10
Comments
Can People Really Change? - with Neil Sattin

Pleasure Activism: Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown

EWhen looking to change things in your world, how do you let pleasure be the force that guides you? How do you fulfill desire while you fight for change? How do you take care of yourself while you transform? Today we’re speaking with author, activist, and healer adrienne maree brown. Her most recent book, the New York Times bestseller “Pleasure Activism”, leans into black feminist traditions to challenge you to rethink how to facilitate change in your own life without sacrificing health or pleasure.

62 MINJUL 25
Comments
Pleasure Activism: Change that Nourishes You - with adrienne maree brown

What To Do When Things Get Challenging

EWhen things get challenging in your relationship, what's the best way to ensure that you and your partner can make it through? How do you avoid the losing strategies that come naturally in a moment of crisis - and, instead, choose ways of dealing that are more likely to lead to a positive outcome? Whether it's something small, or something apocalyptic, we'll talk about how to weather the storm successfully, with strategies that will help you navigate a painful moment without doing something destructive.

39 MINJUL 19
Comments
What To Do When Things Get Challenging

Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds with Peter Levine

EHow would you know if there were experiences from the earliest moments of your life affecting you here and now? And if you are indeed being impacted by the distant past - what can you do to heal those early traumas so that you’re more free and connected in your current life? Our guest today is Peter Levine, creator of Somatic Experiencing, and author of many bestselling books on healing trauma. Today you’ll learn how to see the signs of these deep emotions, and what to do to regulate them with your part

59 MINJUL 10
Comments
Healing Your Earliest Attachment Wounds with Peter Levine

Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy

EDo you want one surefire way to know if the way you're interacting with your partner is something that they're into? Get their consent! Is there a place for getting consent even in a long-term relationship where you're pretty sure you know what your partner wants (and doesn't want)? Absolutely! Getting consent is a pathway to deeper intimacy, passion, and presence - for ALL relationships. Today you'll learn how to re-introduce the language of consent in a way that's empowering for both you and your partner.

25 MINJUL 4
Comments
Sexy Consent - Deeper Intimacy