改变人生的谈话

改变人生的谈话

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  • 黄启团
    黄启团
    资深心理学导师,壹心理平台投资创建人。
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改变人生的谈话
93 Episodes

001 前言

8min

002 改变人生,从改变说话习惯开始:别拿“性子直”欺骗自己,你只是不会说话罢了01

8min

003 别拿“性子直”欺骗自己,你只是不会说话罢了02

8min

004 你想改变别人?那需要足够的智慧01

9min

005 你想改变别人?那需要足够的智慧02

9min

006 “发光体”还是“黑洞” ?

10min

007 对事还是对人?01

7min

008 对事还是对人?02

7min

009 乐观者还是悲观者?

8min

010 如何让人喜欢你?01

7min

011 如何让人喜欢你?02

7min

012 语言框架:是什么限制了你的人生:世界无限,除非你自我设限

11min

013 贫穷限制了你的想象力,还是想象力让你贫穷?

8min

014 三种限制性语言:无助、无望、无价值01

11min

015 三种限制性语言:无助、无望、无价值02

11min

016 设框:别人怎么对你,都是你教的01

7min

017 设框:别人怎么对你,都是你教的02

6min

018 Yes Set:你的人生很可能是别人设定的结果

9min

019 SCORE 模式:这样聊天,打开一个全新世界01

9min

020 SCORE 模式:这样聊天,打开一个全新世界02

9min

021 强有力的问题发生器:改变格局和高度的语言模式01

9min

022 强有力的问题发生器:改变格局和高度的语言模式02

9min

023 强有力的问题发生器:改变格局和高度的语言模式03

9min

024 强有力的问题发生器:改变格局和高度的语言模式04

8min

025 换框和破框:如何跳出囚禁你的牢笼:环境换框:改变场景,改变价值01

9min

026 环境换框:改变场景,改变价值02

9min

027 意义换框:如何改变人的感受和行动01

9min

028 意义换框:如何改变人的感受和行动02

8min

029 意义换框:如何改变人的感受和行动03

8min

030 意义换框:如何改变人的感受和行动04

8min

031 意义换框:如何改变人的感受和行动05

7min

032 破框:人在框内,叫囚;人在框外,就是自由01

11min

033 破框:人在框内,叫囚;人在框外,就是自由02

10min

034 语言归类法:智慧语言模式:语言是一种能够改写历史的力量

5min

035 上归类:与持不同观点的人达成共识

7min

036 下归类:找出问题症结,让问题迎刃而解

4min

037 横归类:提升自己的创意能力

7min

038 智慧语言模式:高情商的语言技巧

13min

039 催眠语法:绕过你的防卫,给潜意识下指令:一句话足以改变一个人的命运01

7min

040 一句话足以改变一个人的命运02

7min

041 猜臆:读心术的秘密

5min

042 因果:给对方一个帮你的理由

6min

043 复合等同:你是如何被广告影响的

2min

044 预设:无可反驳的隐藏指令

3min

045 虚泛词:留白的艺术

1min

046 以偏概全:像乐观者一样思考

3min

047 可能性与必须性:把规则隐藏起来

4min

048 遗失行动者:无画处皆成妙境

3min

049 比较删减:没有伤害的比较

3min

050说话者不明确:让它像真理一样

4min

051 动词不明确:把掌控权留给别人

2min

052 附加问句:让指令变得温和

4min

053 同步现有经历:让人无法抗拒的指令

7min

054 双重约束:让人没有选择的选择

2min

055 延伸引述:故意让你听不明白的技巧

3min

056 选择性违反限制:违反常理才符合常理

5min

057 含糊:一语双关的催眠指令

8min

058 利用:一切都可以成为资源

5min

059 识别催眠十八法

2min

060 反催眠:后设语言模式:负面催眠正在吞噬你的人生

10min

061 删减:把缺失的内容找回来,就能看清真相

12min

062 扭曲:你认为的真实,只不过是你塑造出来的结果

14min

063 一般化:识破“盲人摸象”的局限

9min

064 后设模式是防火墙,可以防止网络中的病毒

6min

065 后设模式的使用原则

6min

066 魔术语言:让心魔在谈笑间灰飞烟灭:语言中的病毒

5min

067 世界观:你认为的事实只不过是一种信念

7min

068 后果:有效果比有道理更重要

4min

069 另外一个结果:无用之用方为大用

7min

070 重新定义:重构语言,重构希望

5min

071 意图:每一个行为的背后都有正面动机

7min

072 上归类:扩大范畴破除限制性信念

2min

073 下归类:看清真相就能改变信念

3min

074 比喻:拉宽框架以识破荒唐信念

11min

075 现实检验策略:挑战信念的支撑条件

11min

076 反例:一次例外足以颠覆原有认知

3min

077 准则层次:用更重要的价值准则重新评估信念

14min

078 反击其身:以其人之道还治其人之身

6min

079 改变框架的大小:拓宽思想的限制以改变执念

8min

080 超越框架:从更高的维度看世界01

8min

081 超越框架:从更高的维度看世界02

8min

082 超越框架:从更高的维度看世界03

8min

083 魔术语言十四技巧示范

9min

084 实用语言技巧:感性与理性01

9min

085 感性与理性02

9min

086 感性与理性03

9min

087 共情与共鸣

14min

088 指责与负责01

8min

089 指责与负责02

8min

090 不良沟通与一致性沟通

12min

091 非文字的语言

19min

092一对多的影响力

12min

093 结语:使命宣言

4min

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