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The Confident Single Woman

Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian

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The Confident Single Woman

The Confident Single Woman

Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian

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If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in! Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette" and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 9 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.

Latest Episodes

#151: The Question I Asked My Husband that Shifted His Whole Life

Today, I’ll be discussing one main question I asked my husband shifted the direction of his life (his words!). This question is the same question I’d ask you on your journey toward marriage. It’s a question that will force you to think about where you stand with your convictions, your standards, and your vision. I’ll be discussing what it looks like to surrender your search to God and submit to His vision. This is such an important piece that can easily become neglected when we’re on our way to fulfilling God’s plan for our lives. Tune in!! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): http://getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

28 min1 w ago
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#151: The Question I Asked My Husband that Shifted His Whole Life

#150: The Difference Between a Successful Woman and a Prideful Woman

Have you ever fallen into the trap of believing that men aren’t interested in successful women? As if successful women are too intimidating and men are too insecure … Though there may be some truth to that, it’s not the whole truth. There are plenty of very successful married women. It’s simply a fact that a successful woman in her field with lots of money CAN get married to a wonderful man. It’s a fact because it’s been done many times before. I’m not saying there aren’t unique challenges that you’ll face, but it is possible to be very successful and find a wonderful man. However, what many women seem to forget is that with success people can become very prideful. And pride is ugly. It taints your soul, in my opinion :-) In this episode, I discuss the differences between a successful, NON-prideful woman versus a successful, prideful woman. This way, you know what to look out for within yourself and you can even apply this awareness to the men you’re dating (it goes both w...

30 min2 w ago
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#150: The Difference Between a Successful Woman and a Prideful Woman

#149: 3 Things To Look for In a Man

There are so many wonderful qualities that we’re all looking for in a husband. Some women prefer a height requirement, educational degrees, ambition, shared morals, humor, a good conversationalist, generosity, etc. The list could literally go on forever. But there are 3 absolutes that I believe every woman (and man) should be looking for in a life-long partner. These 3 things, in my opinion, are non-negotiables. The catch is that they’re usually hard to spot right away. You know the saying, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover?” Well, this should be your mantra as you begin searching for men who meet these 3 requirements. Tune in today to learn what 3 things women should look for in a husband! Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love...

28 minSEP 28
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#149: 3 Things To Look for In a Man

#148: How To Deal With Family Members as an Adult Single Woman

How many of you have family members who love asking about your love life? Or love giving you advice about your love life? It’s the best when they’ve been married forever and don’t know anyone else who’s single at your age, and they still want to help you understand what you’re doing wrong. Haha! As much as you love your family (I hope!), I wanted to discuss how to deal with the family members who insert themselves into your love life, or lack thereof, when you get together for the holidays, or any time really. I cover how to respond to the dreaded question, “Why are you still single?,” how to communicate with those who genuinely care about you, and what to do when you have family members who just love getting under your skin. Tune in to learn more about what to do! And…share this with a friend you know it can help … And … subscribe and refer back to this before the holidays! The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standard...

35 minSEP 21
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#148: How To Deal With Family Members as an Adult Single Woman

#147: How To Deal With Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 2) with Jennifer Uwanaka

Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine! Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness. She asks about: … the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness; … if loneliness can be overcome, … how to deal with loneliness in a marriage, …. why/how it exists within a marriage, …. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness, … how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine! … and so much more. Be sure to tune in for Part 1 and subscribe to be notified for Part 2! Enjoy!! Follow Jennifer on IG: @lovejenniu The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburr...

31 minSEP 14
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#147: How To Deal With Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 2) with Jennifer Uwanaka

#146: How to Deal with Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 1) with Jennifer Uwanaka

Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine! Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness. She asks about: … the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness; … if loneliness can be overcome, … how to deal with loneliness in a marriage, …. why/how it exists within a marriage, …. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness, … how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine! … and so much more. Be sure to tune in for Part 1 and subscribe to be notified for Part 2! Enjoy!! Follow Jennifer on IG: @lovejenniu The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburr...

29 minSEP 7
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#146: How to Deal with Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 1) with Jennifer Uwanaka

#145: How To Reject a Guy Graciously

If you’re curious about how to reject well, what to say, and how to do it graciously, then listen to this episode! There are 5 different things that you need to consider in order to reject clearly AND graciously. Once you know these things, and truly care about them, it’ll make it a lot easier to reject. From there, it takes time to develop the “skill” of rejection where you can be kind to the person showing interest in you, but simultaneously turn him down. I cover how to do this with the men who look great on paper, the “Good Guy, but not Your Guy,” and I also talk about how to reject the man who doesn’t share your faith, values, or beliefs. Tune in and share! PS: If you’re interested in the rejection prompts mentioned in this episode, check out: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards Th...

30 minAUG 31
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#145: How To Reject a Guy Graciously

#144: Choosing God's Standards Over Society's Standards (Originally aired 11.14.17)

How man Christian women are attracted to men based off of society’s standards first, and then and only THEN do they consider if God’s standards are being met? I want to challenge every Christian woman to reprioritize their standards and attractions to be led by God’s standards first. Then and only THEN will they consider if him if he meets society’s standards. Essentially, I’m asking you to choose backwards. Now, this doesn’t mean I’m saying you should give NO consideration to looks (because we all know that’s the first filter), but what I am saying is that it’s possible that too much value is being given to making sure the guy meets ALL your physical qualifications first. Give this episode a chance :-) Tune in and share! The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online ...

22 minAUG 24
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#144: Choosing God's Standards Over Society's Standards (Originally aired 11.14.17)

#143: A Massive Overlooked Issue That Keeps People Single

As a single woman, I’m sure you’ve listened to dozens, if not hundreds, of YouTube videos on singleness and dating, listened to plenty of wisdom from Matthew Hussey, and received too much unsolicited advice from everyone around you. I’m a Love Coach for single Christian women and though I’ve heard much of the same advice as you have, I am certain I’ve never heard anyone talk about what I’m going to talk about on today’s episode. I learned about this massive, overlooked issue that keeps people single because of my clients, the women in our Confident Single Woman Facebook group, and from single friends. I had to bring this to light on today’s episode and discuss how it may be impacting you in your single life. This issue applies to so many people, men and women alike, and it’s something that people don’t even consider to be a hindrance. However, I see how this issue slows down people’s progress toward finding someone they want to be with forever. Thank you for tuning in tod...

24 minAUG 17
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#143: A Massive Overlooked Issue That Keeps People Single

#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1...

31 minAUG 10
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#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

Latest Episodes

#151: The Question I Asked My Husband that Shifted His Whole Life

Today, I’ll be discussing one main question I asked my husband shifted the direction of his life (his words!). This question is the same question I’d ask you on your journey toward marriage. It’s a question that will force you to think about where you stand with your convictions, your standards, and your vision. I’ll be discussing what it looks like to surrender your search to God and submit to His vision. This is such an important piece that can easily become neglected when we’re on our way to fulfilling God’s plan for our lives. Tune in!! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): http://getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

28 min1 w ago
Comments
#151: The Question I Asked My Husband that Shifted His Whole Life

#150: The Difference Between a Successful Woman and a Prideful Woman

Have you ever fallen into the trap of believing that men aren’t interested in successful women? As if successful women are too intimidating and men are too insecure … Though there may be some truth to that, it’s not the whole truth. There are plenty of very successful married women. It’s simply a fact that a successful woman in her field with lots of money CAN get married to a wonderful man. It’s a fact because it’s been done many times before. I’m not saying there aren’t unique challenges that you’ll face, but it is possible to be very successful and find a wonderful man. However, what many women seem to forget is that with success people can become very prideful. And pride is ugly. It taints your soul, in my opinion :-) In this episode, I discuss the differences between a successful, NON-prideful woman versus a successful, prideful woman. This way, you know what to look out for within yourself and you can even apply this awareness to the men you’re dating (it goes both w...

30 min2 w ago
Comments
#150: The Difference Between a Successful Woman and a Prideful Woman

#149: 3 Things To Look for In a Man

There are so many wonderful qualities that we’re all looking for in a husband. Some women prefer a height requirement, educational degrees, ambition, shared morals, humor, a good conversationalist, generosity, etc. The list could literally go on forever. But there are 3 absolutes that I believe every woman (and man) should be looking for in a life-long partner. These 3 things, in my opinion, are non-negotiables. The catch is that they’re usually hard to spot right away. You know the saying, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover?” Well, this should be your mantra as you begin searching for men who meet these 3 requirements. Tune in today to learn what 3 things women should look for in a husband! Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love...

28 minSEP 28
Comments
#149: 3 Things To Look for In a Man

#148: How To Deal With Family Members as an Adult Single Woman

How many of you have family members who love asking about your love life? Or love giving you advice about your love life? It’s the best when they’ve been married forever and don’t know anyone else who’s single at your age, and they still want to help you understand what you’re doing wrong. Haha! As much as you love your family (I hope!), I wanted to discuss how to deal with the family members who insert themselves into your love life, or lack thereof, when you get together for the holidays, or any time really. I cover how to respond to the dreaded question, “Why are you still single?,” how to communicate with those who genuinely care about you, and what to do when you have family members who just love getting under your skin. Tune in to learn more about what to do! And…share this with a friend you know it can help … And … subscribe and refer back to this before the holidays! The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standard...

35 minSEP 21
Comments
#148: How To Deal With Family Members as an Adult Single Woman

#147: How To Deal With Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 2) with Jennifer Uwanaka

Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine! Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness. She asks about: … the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness; … if loneliness can be overcome, … how to deal with loneliness in a marriage, …. why/how it exists within a marriage, …. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness, … how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine! … and so much more. Be sure to tune in for Part 1 and subscribe to be notified for Part 2! Enjoy!! Follow Jennifer on IG: @lovejenniu The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburr...

31 minSEP 14
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#147: How To Deal With Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 2) with Jennifer Uwanaka

#146: How to Deal with Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 1) with Jennifer Uwanaka

Join me as I talk with Jennifer Uwanaka of Beautiful Believers about dealing with loneliness during quarantine! Jennifer has some amazing questions for me about how to deal with loneliness. She asks about: … the difference between being alone and feeling loneliness; … if loneliness can be overcome, … how to deal with loneliness in a marriage, …. why/how it exists within a marriage, …. do you have to get married in order to overcome loneliness, … how to overcome loneliness as a single woman, especially for the social ones during Quarantine! … and so much more. Be sure to tune in for Part 1 and subscribe to be notified for Part 2! Enjoy!! Follow Jennifer on IG: @lovejenniu The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburr...

29 minSEP 7
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#146: How to Deal with Loneliness as a Single Woman (Part 1) with Jennifer Uwanaka

#145: How To Reject a Guy Graciously

If you’re curious about how to reject well, what to say, and how to do it graciously, then listen to this episode! There are 5 different things that you need to consider in order to reject clearly AND graciously. Once you know these things, and truly care about them, it’ll make it a lot easier to reject. From there, it takes time to develop the “skill” of rejection where you can be kind to the person showing interest in you, but simultaneously turn him down. I cover how to do this with the men who look great on paper, the “Good Guy, but not Your Guy,” and I also talk about how to reject the man who doesn’t share your faith, values, or beliefs. Tune in and share! PS: If you’re interested in the rejection prompts mentioned in this episode, check out: The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards Th...

30 minAUG 31
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#145: How To Reject a Guy Graciously

#144: Choosing God's Standards Over Society's Standards (Originally aired 11.14.17)

How man Christian women are attracted to men based off of society’s standards first, and then and only THEN do they consider if God’s standards are being met? I want to challenge every Christian woman to reprioritize their standards and attractions to be led by God’s standards first. Then and only THEN will they consider if him if he meets society’s standards. Essentially, I’m asking you to choose backwards. Now, this doesn’t mean I’m saying you should give NO consideration to looks (because we all know that’s the first filter), but what I am saying is that it’s possible that too much value is being given to making sure the guy meets ALL your physical qualifications first. Give this episode a chance :-) Tune in and share! The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online ...

22 minAUG 24
Comments
#144: Choosing God's Standards Over Society's Standards (Originally aired 11.14.17)

#143: A Massive Overlooked Issue That Keeps People Single

As a single woman, I’m sure you’ve listened to dozens, if not hundreds, of YouTube videos on singleness and dating, listened to plenty of wisdom from Matthew Hussey, and received too much unsolicited advice from everyone around you. I’m a Love Coach for single Christian women and though I’ve heard much of the same advice as you have, I am certain I’ve never heard anyone talk about what I’m going to talk about on today’s episode. I learned about this massive, overlooked issue that keeps people single because of my clients, the women in our Confident Single Woman Facebook group, and from single friends. I had to bring this to light on today’s episode and discuss how it may be impacting you in your single life. This issue applies to so many people, men and women alike, and it’s something that people don’t even consider to be a hindrance. However, I see how this issue slows down people’s progress toward finding someone they want to be with forever. Thank you for tuning in tod...

24 minAUG 17
Comments
#143: A Massive Overlooked Issue That Keeps People Single

#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1...

31 minAUG 10
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#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman
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