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SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

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SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver

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48
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SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create is devoted to helping you discover your own erotic journey. Whether you’re new to exploring your sexual boundaries, or seeking your next exciting adventure, we’re here to give you access to all the resources you need to illuminate the roads along the path of your individual sexual enlightenment.Each show will feature experts in their respective fields, who will open your mind up to new ideas, so you can discover who you are and connect with SDC.com’s communities to create unique moments and experiences within your own erotic tribe, in a safe environment.No topic will be too taboo as we answer a wide range of important questions about sexuality, relationships and health, with expert guidance from leading health and sexuality professionals.You can unearth the ways in which you choose to express yourself freely, while connecting with like-minded individuals to join you as you explore yourself and your own needs and desires.

Latest Episodes

Encore 2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

EThis episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

60 MIN6 d ago
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Encore 2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

Swinging and Open Relationships for Newbies

EWhat does it really mean to be in an open relationship? How can you get started in the swinger lifestyle? What are swingers and sex clubs actually like? What do you do when issues arise in your ethically non-monogamous relationship? Host Lexi Sylver flies solo this episode to talk to newbies and curious people and couples about swinging and open relationships. She introduces the basics of swinging and what it means for her and for others to be identified as open, who the swinging lifestyle is for, and what it’s not. Lexi highlights the importance of communication in relationships and how to talk to your partner about swinging and when feelings arise in the lifestyle, including how to cope with jealousy. She talks about how to meet other open-minded people, how to attract a unicorn, and what to do if swinging goes wrong. Lexi also answers several of the audience’s Letters to Lexi about open relationships.

60 MIN1 w ago
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Swinging and Open Relationships for Newbies

Female Sexuality, Confidence and Empowerment

EWomen face many challenges when it comes to expressing and exploring their sexuality. Host Lexi Sylver and Jessi Camille of The Pussy Party Podcast get personal to uncover some of the reasons why women are reluctant to fully embrace their sexual selves. They unpack the double standards that exist when it comes to society’s perceptions and stigmas about female versus male sexuality. They also discuss their experiences of being slut shamed by others and how that impacted their current journeys to guide other women to be shameless in their pursuit of pleasure and happiness. Lexi and Jessi also talk about what female empowerment means to them, and what women can do to help others discover and unapologetically own their sexual identities. They offer advice for women who are struggling with body image and sexual confidence and encourage women to celebrate their sexuality rather than feeling shame.

60 MIN2 w ago
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Female Sexuality, Confidence and Empowerment

Oral Sex: Taboos, How-Tos and Pleasure

EOral sex talk, uncensored! Host Lexi Sylver interviews Melanie Cristol, the founder of Lorals, to talk about her journey in the sex tech industry, the taboos behind cunnilingus, and how to feel confident giving and receiving oral pleasure. They discuss why vulva owners might feel uncomfortable receiving cunnilingus, and what to do to minimize worries and maximize their comfort and pleasure. Lexi and Melanie offer advice for period sex, STI and STD protection during oral sex, analingus, anal rimming, as well as how to communicate with your partner about what you do and don’t enjoy. They explore how women are feeling more empowered to take charge of their sexuality and pleasure. Melanie also details the challenges she overcame during her foray into sex tech and in developing, manufacturing and marketing her invention.

60 MINJAN 21
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Oral Sex: Taboos, How-Tos and Pleasure

From Swinging to Polyamory: One Couple's Journey

EHow does a couple go from monogamy to swinging to polyamory? Host Lexi Sylver gets personal with Talloolah Love and her partner Q as they detail their journey through ethical non-monogamy and how their relationship has evolved through open and honest communication about boundaries and feelings. Talloolah and Q explore the mistakes they made, and how they overcame jealousy, and how they adapted their relationship and refined their boundaries. They also discuss what to do in polyamory when you are experiencing new relationship energy (NRE) with a new partner, to make your other partners feel special, and what to do if your metamours aren’t getting along. Q also discusses how his anxiety and depression affected his sexual desire, and how he and Talloolah have accommodated each other’s intimacy needs in light of his asexuality.

60 MINJAN 14
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From Swinging to Polyamory: One Couple's Journey

Encore Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular and Surprising Scenarios

EDo you want to know what people fantasize about? Which sexual fantasies are the most popular and the most taboo? Our host Lexi Sylver interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller about the studies he has done with people who have revealed their deepest, darkest fantasies. Dr. Lehmiller reports these real life findings, some of which are quite surprising. Lexi Sylver and Dr. Lehmiller explore which sexual fantasies are the most common for people to have, and the differences in gender and sexual orientations in the type and frequency of their fantasies. They also discuss which sexual fantasies are considered taboo, such as cuckolding fantasies and forced sex fantasies, and reveal why people might fantasize about those kinds of scenarios, as well as why those are actually quite normal and common. They also explore how having sexual fantasies can potentially be beneficial to your mental health and to help you explore your sexuality, and what to do if you are having unwanted sexual fantasies.

60 MINJAN 7
Comments
Encore Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular and Surprising Scenarios

2019 in Review: Cannabis, Kink, Orgies and Butt Stuff

EThis episode highlights some of the most popular episodes this year about spicing up your sex life, including butt stuff, using cannabis to enhance sex, getting kinky with BDSM, and how to have an orgy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg of American Sex Podcast, Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual), Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause, and Taara and James from Sex Uninterrupted. Sunny and Ken explain the differences between prostate and anal orgasms, what pegging is, and tips to make it comfortable, sexy and fun for everyone involved. Ashley Manta describes how cannabis products can be used to have even more pleasurable sex, and advice on how to get started trying cannabis. Charlie and Arienne get personal and describe their own kinky dominant / submissive dynamic and explore the foundations of a healthy BDSM relationship. Taara and James offer insight into how to have an orgy, from choosing your partners to establishing consent and ensuring mutual pleasure.

60 MIN2019 DEC 31
Comments
2019 in Review: Cannabis, Kink, Orgies and Butt Stuff

2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

EThis episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

59 MIN2019 DEC 24
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2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

LIVE at The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto

ELexi Sylver joins us LIVE from The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, with interviews from sex educators, exhibitors and attendees. She talks to Fatima Mechtab, Marketing Director and Co-Owner of Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto, about what it’s like at a sex club, events they offer and the demographics of their guests. In her interview with Luna Matatas, pleasure educator, they discuss the topics she covers in her seminars at the show, from how to have a threesome to talking about fantasies with your partner, and debunking myths about dominance. With Patrick, host of the podcast Intellectual Erection, they explore establishing consent and exploring openness within the sex-positive community, and normalizing and destigmatizing sexuality. In her interview with Matt Tabota, owner of Toronto’s The O Zone, they offer tips for people who go to a sex club for the first time. Join Lexi and her guests during this exciting live event.

60 MIN2019 DEC 17
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LIVE at The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto

Erotic Literature: Sex, Taboos and Empowerment

EWhy has female-focused erotic literature become so popular in recent years? How do erotica writers get inspiration for their stories? How can erotica help you explore your sexuality and help break down taboos? Join host Lexi Sylver with erotic author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel to discover more about the sexy world of erotica. In this episode, Rachel reveals what inspires her to write her erotic stories, and how she first came to start writing erotic literature. They discuss why women’s erotica continues to gain popularity and the current trends in the industry. They explore the diverse selection of new stories written with representative characters of different backgrounds, gender identities, relationship styles and sexuality. Finally, they discuss how female empowerment has contributed to the emergence of erotic stories that break down sexual shame and taboos and explore the pursuit of pleasure. Lexi and Rachel also answer some questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

60 MIN2019 DEC 10
Comments
Erotic Literature: Sex, Taboos and Empowerment

Latest Episodes

Encore 2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

EThis episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

60 MIN6 d ago
Comments
Encore 2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

Swinging and Open Relationships for Newbies

EWhat does it really mean to be in an open relationship? How can you get started in the swinger lifestyle? What are swingers and sex clubs actually like? What do you do when issues arise in your ethically non-monogamous relationship? Host Lexi Sylver flies solo this episode to talk to newbies and curious people and couples about swinging and open relationships. She introduces the basics of swinging and what it means for her and for others to be identified as open, who the swinging lifestyle is for, and what it’s not. Lexi highlights the importance of communication in relationships and how to talk to your partner about swinging and when feelings arise in the lifestyle, including how to cope with jealousy. She talks about how to meet other open-minded people, how to attract a unicorn, and what to do if swinging goes wrong. Lexi also answers several of the audience’s Letters to Lexi about open relationships.

60 MIN1 w ago
Comments
Swinging and Open Relationships for Newbies

Female Sexuality, Confidence and Empowerment

EWomen face many challenges when it comes to expressing and exploring their sexuality. Host Lexi Sylver and Jessi Camille of The Pussy Party Podcast get personal to uncover some of the reasons why women are reluctant to fully embrace their sexual selves. They unpack the double standards that exist when it comes to society’s perceptions and stigmas about female versus male sexuality. They also discuss their experiences of being slut shamed by others and how that impacted their current journeys to guide other women to be shameless in their pursuit of pleasure and happiness. Lexi and Jessi also talk about what female empowerment means to them, and what women can do to help others discover and unapologetically own their sexual identities. They offer advice for women who are struggling with body image and sexual confidence and encourage women to celebrate their sexuality rather than feeling shame.

60 MIN2 w ago
Comments
Female Sexuality, Confidence and Empowerment

Oral Sex: Taboos, How-Tos and Pleasure

EOral sex talk, uncensored! Host Lexi Sylver interviews Melanie Cristol, the founder of Lorals, to talk about her journey in the sex tech industry, the taboos behind cunnilingus, and how to feel confident giving and receiving oral pleasure. They discuss why vulva owners might feel uncomfortable receiving cunnilingus, and what to do to minimize worries and maximize their comfort and pleasure. Lexi and Melanie offer advice for period sex, STI and STD protection during oral sex, analingus, anal rimming, as well as how to communicate with your partner about what you do and don’t enjoy. They explore how women are feeling more empowered to take charge of their sexuality and pleasure. Melanie also details the challenges she overcame during her foray into sex tech and in developing, manufacturing and marketing her invention.

60 MINJAN 21
Comments
Oral Sex: Taboos, How-Tos and Pleasure

From Swinging to Polyamory: One Couple's Journey

EHow does a couple go from monogamy to swinging to polyamory? Host Lexi Sylver gets personal with Talloolah Love and her partner Q as they detail their journey through ethical non-monogamy and how their relationship has evolved through open and honest communication about boundaries and feelings. Talloolah and Q explore the mistakes they made, and how they overcame jealousy, and how they adapted their relationship and refined their boundaries. They also discuss what to do in polyamory when you are experiencing new relationship energy (NRE) with a new partner, to make your other partners feel special, and what to do if your metamours aren’t getting along. Q also discusses how his anxiety and depression affected his sexual desire, and how he and Talloolah have accommodated each other’s intimacy needs in light of his asexuality.

60 MINJAN 14
Comments
From Swinging to Polyamory: One Couple's Journey

Encore Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular and Surprising Scenarios

EDo you want to know what people fantasize about? Which sexual fantasies are the most popular and the most taboo? Our host Lexi Sylver interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller about the studies he has done with people who have revealed their deepest, darkest fantasies. Dr. Lehmiller reports these real life findings, some of which are quite surprising. Lexi Sylver and Dr. Lehmiller explore which sexual fantasies are the most common for people to have, and the differences in gender and sexual orientations in the type and frequency of their fantasies. They also discuss which sexual fantasies are considered taboo, such as cuckolding fantasies and forced sex fantasies, and reveal why people might fantasize about those kinds of scenarios, as well as why those are actually quite normal and common. They also explore how having sexual fantasies can potentially be beneficial to your mental health and to help you explore your sexuality, and what to do if you are having unwanted sexual fantasies.

60 MINJAN 7
Comments
Encore Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular and Surprising Scenarios

2019 in Review: Cannabis, Kink, Orgies and Butt Stuff

EThis episode highlights some of the most popular episodes this year about spicing up your sex life, including butt stuff, using cannabis to enhance sex, getting kinky with BDSM, and how to have an orgy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg of American Sex Podcast, Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual), Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause, and Taara and James from Sex Uninterrupted. Sunny and Ken explain the differences between prostate and anal orgasms, what pegging is, and tips to make it comfortable, sexy and fun for everyone involved. Ashley Manta describes how cannabis products can be used to have even more pleasurable sex, and advice on how to get started trying cannabis. Charlie and Arienne get personal and describe their own kinky dominant / submissive dynamic and explore the foundations of a healthy BDSM relationship. Taara and James offer insight into how to have an orgy, from choosing your partners to establishing consent and ensuring mutual pleasure.

60 MIN2019 DEC 31
Comments
2019 in Review: Cannabis, Kink, Orgies and Butt Stuff

2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

EThis episode features highlights from some of the most popular episodes this year about open relationships, swinging, hotwifing, polyamory and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Our host Lexi Sylver talks to Dr. Liz Powell about different types of ethically non-monogamous relationships and how people can get on the same page about how they want to practice non-monogamy. Kitty Chambliss talks about the difference between envy and jealousy, the reasons we may experience jealousy, and why jealousy is not always a bad thing. John and Jackie of Openlove101 discuss their own personal open relationship, their first swinging experience, and female empowerment in the swinging lifestyle. Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann of SeXXXperience explore their unique swinging and hotwifing relationship and what the swinging lifestyle means to them.

59 MIN2019 DEC 24
Comments
2019 in Review: Best of Swinging, Hotwifing and Open Relationships

LIVE at The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto

ELexi Sylver joins us LIVE from The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, with interviews from sex educators, exhibitors and attendees. She talks to Fatima Mechtab, Marketing Director and Co-Owner of Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto, about what it’s like at a sex club, events they offer and the demographics of their guests. In her interview with Luna Matatas, pleasure educator, they discuss the topics she covers in her seminars at the show, from how to have a threesome to talking about fantasies with your partner, and debunking myths about dominance. With Patrick, host of the podcast Intellectual Erection, they explore establishing consent and exploring openness within the sex-positive community, and normalizing and destigmatizing sexuality. In her interview with Matt Tabota, owner of Toronto’s The O Zone, they offer tips for people who go to a sex club for the first time. Join Lexi and her guests during this exciting live event.

60 MIN2019 DEC 17
Comments
LIVE at The Everything to Do With Sex Show in Toronto

Erotic Literature: Sex, Taboos and Empowerment

EWhy has female-focused erotic literature become so popular in recent years? How do erotica writers get inspiration for their stories? How can erotica help you explore your sexuality and help break down taboos? Join host Lexi Sylver with erotic author and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel to discover more about the sexy world of erotica. In this episode, Rachel reveals what inspires her to write her erotic stories, and how she first came to start writing erotic literature. They discuss why women’s erotica continues to gain popularity and the current trends in the industry. They explore the diverse selection of new stories written with representative characters of different backgrounds, gender identities, relationship styles and sexuality. Finally, they discuss how female empowerment has contributed to the emergence of erotic stories that break down sexual shame and taboos and explore the pursuit of pleasure. Lexi and Rachel also answer some questions from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

60 MIN2019 DEC 10
Comments
Erotic Literature: Sex, Taboos and Empowerment
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