Today's romance scene might be better than ever & we might be ruining it by playing games with our very own selves! On this episode we discuss "Prevalence Induced Concept Change" and the amount of mental re-framing we can employ on a daily basis to improve our love lives. Follow along: - Tinder is versatile af - Your threshold for happiness - Nothing is wrong = something is wrong - Equal opportunity arguments - Calm fight prevention, nah, can't relate - Technology doesn't suck but you do - Scrolling & trolling the newsfeed - Jay & Bey are fighting like dogs & cats too - We are chasing the wrong thing - Content but no context - Those fucking travel couples!! - Your online activity needs some regulation - These algorithms are getting the best of me - Social media detox & cleanse - Does eating more count as higher productivity? - The upside to divorce - Redefining "failed marriage" - Unhappy together vs unhappy alone - Even toxic relationships give you direction --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deviohira/support
Love Is Blind, But This Pod Is Lit!! Sid has indulged us by joining in on Netflix's 'Love is Blind' viewing frenzy & some late night texts of his incredulity has inspired this episode. You don't need to watch all 10 episodes, consider this the spark notes. Oh, and Welcome to Season 3 of Call of Booty. - When you want in on the group chat - Oh, it's real - There's too many choices, I'm fatigued - Now I'm doing a 180 - This is how they do down in the ATL - Gilligan's Island up in here - Your odor matters - The most offensive person at the gym - The most hated cast member of all time - Why do players prevail? - To challenge and be a challenge - The next cities this show needs to be in - What Love Is Blind LA, SF & NY would be like - Is it just me or is it the editing? - Our predictions of whose gonna last - Drunk AF here in my pod - Who really needs to be hosting this show tho - Payday stats, we need to know - Ok, ok, fine, I can be bought - The purest dating show you'll ever see - Key phrases that will get you far in life - How to survive in Japan --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deviohira/support
How is this tech shit actually going to play out? Is it gonna help or hinder us? We discuss near-future tech innovations and what this means for finding love and matters of the heart. We cover: - The zombie apocalypse has arrived - International dating, no passport required - VR dating on a budget - Major concerns about VR & food - My lazy ass wants to VR - VR'ing at Trader Joe's - Catfishing - Pre-screening people wit VR - How your broke ass will afford VR goggles - Cock blocking tech malfunctions - Bad but extremely memorable IRL situations - Happy accidents - The future is an episode of Black Mirror - AI ain't that smart - Fucked up times build character - High-level enabling - Who AI match making actually benefits - You on paper vs you in real life - Genetic disease & baby-making deal breakers - What we're notposting on social media - We need some societal team players - More entrepreneurial app ideas - Back to basics: old school dating methods - The politics of blind dating - LinkedIn, your new love-finding tool - Thedating app integration idea dating app companies will thank us for - Technology is a mother - Join us in our class action lawsuit against 5G! Follow along with the articles referenced: VR:https://www.eharmony.co.uk/dating-advice/dating/experts-predict-what-dating-will-be-like-by-2040 AIMM &DNA-based matching:https://hackernoon.com/how-cutting-edge-tech-is-changing-online-dating-forever-sl1hh30sh --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deviohira/support
Not only are we tolerating bad societal & dating behavior, we're perpetuating it. In this episode, we talk the major problems & some solid solutions. Let's get down to it: - Fake Lesbians - The men suck movement - Major tangent alert! courtesy of Sid - Your childhood is ruining your dating life - Human adaptation is too good that now it's bad - "She's crazy" tangent (it's only Tuesday & it's been a long week) - The most bothersome behavior - Britney vs Christina - Flirty girlfriends - Why it doesn't pay to be a "cool girl" - "He should do that" entitlement - When you take advice from viral memes - Men x materialism: the epidemic - The VERY BEST way to put a superficial man in his place - The psychology behind "u up?" texts - People are not Postmates - How to respond to a "u up?" text - Don't blame it on the crazy - Don't underestimate the impact - The #1 reason for cheating - Once again, our jobs are killing our romantic lives - Is your marriage to your career or spouse? - Unacceptable condom behavior - Be willing to lose if he does THIS - This is the change we need! - Free product endorsement --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deviohira/support
She don't need you, she don't need nobody. But is this phenomenon a good or bad thing? We weigh in: - Can't have your cake & eat it too - We need some hard & fast rules - Feminists still want you to pay for their meal - We're teaching our girls the wrong thing - Men are getting cut out of the equation - The New Rebellion - Can't stand each other --> Understand each other - What "free meals" are really all about - We're conditioning a monster - The ever-existing sexual double standard - The bigger the body count, the bigger the issues - The slut shame game - What their sexual past means - The Goldilocks number on your body count - New trend alert: eunuch-shaming - Be fucking grateful - We are walking memes - Bad dating habits we need to retire - Are we actually trying to be together? - There's some anger below the surface - Vengeance on the one person that did you dirty - It's not a competition - Never say this again about women --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/deviohira/support
We might be tired of our dating culture here, so what exactly is it like overseas?? What can men (and women) learn from our European counterparts? Join in & taste the foreign flavor with us & a special guest in this episode. We're covering: - Texting styles of the foreigners - Cut out the BS wit a binary dating system - Commit first, get to know them later - Commitment-phobic, vet-happy Americans - How the continents play hard to get - The sweet side of ghosting - Good ol' American work hard, play hard (to get) - A culture of suspicion - Which country is noticeably sexually charged - Being PC kills sexuality - Not everything is #metoo - Is that a compliment or a come-on? - (way too) Independent, wit liberty & justice for all... - How the continents showcase masculinity - European geographical advantages - The Scandinavian countries are on to something - Oh those foreign languages - Ladies first: women making the first move - For the last time, friendliness is not always flirtation -...
It's a new decade & we're settling the hierarchy of relationship priority once & for all. Inspired by this article, "The Uncomfortable Truth About Who You Should Love Most (Between Your Spouse, Your Parents, And Your Kids)", we weigh lover, parents, kids, friends, job & hobby.Hint: Love gets top billing. Topics covered: - Never buy the warranty - The craziestCostco returns - Societal conditioningdoesn't actually value romance - Career is the real lover here - The "grandfathered-in" trap - Your hierarchyof priority determines your relationship compatibility - The biggest modern parenting mistake - When you're married to your parents - Why you need to hit the town - When your family is your baggage - Do you choose your lover or your family? - Your awkward double-life - Is unconditional love actually bullshit? - Why we need to stop saying this whole "dicks before chicks" thing - Our possessive friends - Define a "real relationship" - Job vs friends - Friends are the first to go... but ...
According to the relationship experts & sex therapists, these are the top sex toys for couples in 2019 & we're letting you know what's overrated, what's worth your money & what you can just leave on the shelf. Follow along with the article referenced & see if you're thinking what we're thinking: http://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-couples-sex-toys.html Key Touch Points: - Black Friday & Cyber Monday self-generosity - Do not use massage guns as a sex toy - The bad side of vibrators - Being immune to dick - Should sex toys be a staple in your sex routine? - Sex toys for hillbillys - Men benefit by just enjoying the show - When sex toys make you want to just play video games - Pricey AF torture devices - Pocket pussy on upgrade - We learn what a frenulum is - Yes, we're bringing Jesus into this - The importance of charging those toys up - Turns out, we also learn what a perineum is as well - TSA-friendly devices - DIY sex toys with household items - Gotta hit them angles - Sex fur...
Ever caught yourself thinking, "isn't it weird that we dating but we ain't communicating"? You're definitely not alone. It's the age of communication breakdown & we're talking solutions on this episode. - non-practical self-pardoning - 'tis the season when all is forgiven - fatass is a lifestyle - if someone tells you thisabout their texting, dump em - appropriate communication frequency when first dating - when not texting for 24 hours is rude - avoiding the double-text - why there's no way to avoid a certain amount of game playing - best ways to restart no-replies - the art of timing & subtlety in sexting - sexting yourself into a corner - the classic thing guys do allll the time, don't be that guy - sexual comments that you can get away with - why faking it through sexting is the best option - statement-making emojis - k vs kk - the most passive aggressive emoji - voice-to-text mishaps will get you in trouble - best ways to cover up auto-text mishaps - the one thing you must do w...
Turkey Drop is the infamous time of year during the holiday season where people end relationships. Are you considering a breakup or trying to safeguard yourselffrom one? Tune in, because this is the episode for you. Convo pieces we're cooking up: - which times of the year clock in w/ the highest breakup rates - solo during the holidays - legit reasons to fake it through the holidays with someone - why emailing your divorce request is okay - warm up family & friends for your Turkey Drop - pros & cons of breaking up before the holidays - relationships that are the most susceptibleto holiday breakups - holidays are the most introspective time of the year! - the most ethical way to breakup - the worst type of guilt - prepare yourself for Turkey Drop aftermath - holiday rebound hookups - let's really assess the point of fruitcake tho - ways to save a dying relationship - there's levels to these red flags - the subtle ramifications of cheating - employing fights as a reset button - when y...