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人设的奥秘|我的人设我作主，不被他人PUA|人设崩塌后

人设的奥秘|我的人设我作主，不被他人PUA|人设崩塌后

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每个人眼里，他人、他事、他物和我们自己，都有一个人设。


如：这人是好人、那人是坏蛋；这事是好事、那事是坏事；这个是宝贝、那个是废物；自己是天才、自己是傻瓜。同时，他人眼里，对我们、对他自己，以及对其他事物，也有一种人设，这人设可能与我们相同，也可能与我们相反。


然而，人设不是一成不变的，昨天的好人今天可能成了坏蛋；昨天的好事今天可能成了坏事；昨天的宝贝今天可能成了废物；原以为自己是个天才，一夜之间却发现自己是个傻瓜！当然，也有反过来的情况。这就是人设崩塌。


人设为什么会崩塌呢？因为每一个人设背后都有一个评价，每一个评价背后都有一个评价依据。反过来，有什么样的评价依据，就有什么样的评价，就有与评价依据相对应的人设。评价依据一旦变化，原有人设也就崩塌了。


人设与人设崩塌，决定着人与人、人与社会相互关系的确立和调整。弄清了人设的奥秘，就获得了一双透过现象看本质的慧眼，就掌握了破解一切社会和生活问题的密码。从此种意义上说，《人设的奥秘》，既是一本管理秘笈，又是处世宝典，更是人生和婚姻的指南。这只是作者为本书设置的 “人设”，它究竟是本什么样的书，还请读者自己去定义。这就像我们每个人不一样的人生。

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