In this episode, Harriet Lerner discusses the rules for having a happy and healthy marriage. Lerner is a distinguished lecturer, consultant, psychotherapist, and author of numerous scholarly articles and books, including Marriage Rules: A Manual for the Married and Coupled Up. How can you make marriage work? How can you take the focus off of changing your spouse? What are some marriage rules related to criticism? How do you become a better listener? What are some top marriage rules related to sex?