If you’ve been basing your whole personality off love languages… we've got some news for you. Turns out the big five - gifts, physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation and acts of service - might not be that legit. In this episode, we investigate where the theory comes from, and how there are better “secrets to love that lasts.” For questions or topic suggestions email thehookup@abc.net.au or dm us @triplejthehookup https://www.instagram.com/triplejthehookup