So parents... let's have a frank conversation. I completely understand that once y'all had children, things change in your life.I find that there is a big difference between the couples that make sure that their relationship stays a priority versus those who put the kids first before their relationship.I don't think that you're a bad partner or spouse if you have put your kids before your spouse.It's not about good or bad. It's not about right or wrong.What this is about is recognizing reality - if you are not prioritizing your relationship you're not going to have a relationship.