In this talk, Reggie describes the moment when we check-out during experiences that are painful, unsettling, or disconcerting. He says such moments of intensity offer an opportunity to step through our fear and resistance, open to our feelings, and rest with the sacredness of the situation. This talk was given at the 2011 Winter Dathun retreat held at the Blazing Mountain Retreat Center inCrestone, CO.To find out about the upcoming Winter Meditation Intensive, please visit www.dharmaocean.org.