We like to think that our personalsafetyand thesafetyof our loved ones is somethingthat other people — law enforcement, school administrators, social media moderators — will take care of for us. My guest today, Spencer Coursen, would say that while this mindsetmay help usfeelsafe, it's actually when we feel the mostsafe, that we're in the greatest danger. Spencer — who's a combat veteran and a threat management expert —calls this paradox "thesafety trap," and he's the author of a book of the same name.