God never said we had to go bowling/skiing/on vacation/insert-your-choice-of-activity-here with people we don't like. But Hedidcommand us to love each other, and to do our part to live in peace with one another! It's impossible for us to do that without letting Him first live and work in our own lives. The sooner we let go of the idea that "it's all about me", the sooner we allow God to love other people through us.