How do you spot a narcissist or gaslighter on a first date? I'll tell you warning signs that tip you off that this person is a manipulator. I'll also teach you a technique to help you find a healthy mate. A similar (but not exact) written version of this episode can be found on my blog at Psychology Today. Go to www.stephaniesarkis.com/blog for the link. The host of Talking Brains is Stephanie Sarkis PhD. www.stephaniesarkis.com