The Third Tuesday第三個星期二We Talk About Regrets我們聊了聊悔恨On the plane ride home that day, I made a small liston a yellow legal pad, issues and questions that we allgrapple with, from happiness to aging to having childrento death.那天在坐飛機回家的途中，我在一個小小的信箋簿上寫了一個清單，列出了我們都需要努力應對的一些擔憂和問題，從快樂到衰老到孩子直至死亡。Of course, there were a million self-help bookson these subjects, and plenty of cable TV shows, and $90-per-hour consultation sessions.當然，市面上關於這類話題有數以百萬計的勵志書籍教你怎麼做，也有數不清的有線電視節目去看，90美金一小時的心理谘詢課可以去上。America had become aPersian bazaar of self-help.美國已經變成了一個充斥自我勵志的獵奇市場。But there still seemed to be no clear answers.但這些似乎仍然都不能給出清晰的答案。Do youtake care of others or take care of your "inner child"?你是更在乎照顧别人呢還是更在乎照顧自己的“內在小孩”？Return to traditional values or reject tradition as useless?向傳統價值觀回歸呢還是因為...